- By Margaret Snow
- Around Town
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Dear Margaret: After losing my wife last year, I've decided to downsize and move into a condo where I'll have less inside maintenance and the HOA will take care of outside maintenance. My problem is that my grown children are squabbling over the house and furnishings, like it was theirs to divide. I feel like I'm in the middle. I know some of the disagreements come from a place of wanting to hang onto items that hold sentimental value and remind them of their dear mother. Other arguing seems to be born of pure selfishness. I can't possibly do the work of sorting and distributing by myself, but having my children 'help' me is causing me too much stress. How can I get through this next stage in my life without causing hard feelings and so much anxiety?Can’t Move Forward










The Boyce Thompson Institute (BTI) is putting a twist on their usual annual fundraising campaign by giving back to the community through scholarships for local high school students. If BTI reaches its end-of-year fundraising goals, the institute will award scholarships to up to four high school students who plan to pursue a career in science, technology, engineering or math (STEM). Chairperson of the BTI board, Laura Philips, as part of her very generous annual giving plan, has pledged to sponsor a $1,000 scholarship for a first-generation college student from the high school of one donor's choice. Donors who give $250 or more to the Unrestricted Futures Campaign between October and December 31 will be entered into the running.

