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Dear IMO,
My elderly mother, who lives in western Pennsylvania, will be moving in with us in a few weeks. My husband and I have planned for this by remodeling one of the rooms on the first floor so that she won't have to climb the stairs. She recently sold her home, and is reimbursing us for the cost of the renovations as well as a little extra for good measure.
All was going well until my older brother began to ask mom and me about the monetary aspect of the move. I'm sorry to say that he isn't at all interested in mom's well being. For the past twenty years, he has not offered any assistance nor bothered to check in on her even though he lives 10 minutes away. Now he is interested in her money, and that really bothers me. He wants to take us to a lawyer and have the will adjusted to reflect the gift that mom is giving us for her move. He has made my mother very upset. What recourse do we have?
Sincerely,
Sheila
Dear Sheila,
You now know why alligators eat their young from time to time. Your brother sounds like a real charmer -- a snake charmer.