- By Dan Veaner
- Around Town
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You probably think a $50,000 birthday present is extravagant, even if all your friends go in on it together. But that's exactly what Margaret Shackell wanted: 50 of something for her 50th birthday. Shackell, who is an active participant in causes throughout Tompkins County, and especially in the Lansing schools decided she wanted 50 thousands of dollars for the 17 local causes that mean the most to her.
"I have had a lot of friends over the past couple of years who have been turning 50," Shackell says. "They've done some 50 for 50s. Marian Ferrer did 50 lunches with friends. I thought that was awesome. Deb Ryan did 50 bucket list things. So I started thinking about what matters to me: fundraising for charities in the community. I've given myself a year to do it. I hope it will be sooner than that. I hope people will jump in and want cake, or want to help out, or want to stop hearing me asking for money!"



Dear Margaret: I gained and lost the same ten to twenty pounds. My weight gain has never prohibited me from engaging in activities that I enjoy. My problems is that I have a very dear friend who has recently become a gym rat and seems to have made it her mission to rescue me from what she perceives as idleness. She nags me about joining her at the gym, invites me to go for 'slow jogs' with her, and is constantly lecturing me on the benefits of working out. It’s getting so I avoid answering the phone when she calls and decline social interactions with her. I miss our friendship and don’t know how to gently let her know her hounding me is pushing me away. How can I steer our friendship back to where it was before her new passion for fitness entered our relationship?

Hi, I'm beautiful Gabby! I'm a calm, introverted girl who arrived at the shelter after my person had to move. I'm in good spirits though and know that my perfect person will come in soon! When it comes to relationships, I'm very level-headed. I don't leap in paws first, if you know what I mean. But give me a little time, and then I'll shower you with purrs, head-butts, and plenty of lap time. In the meantime, you may not see a lot of me but I'll be thinking a lot of you! I am happiest as the only cat in the home, but thankfully I have so much personality you won't need anyone else! I use my litterbox perfectly, am already spayed, microchipped, and am up to date with vaccines. If you're looking for an easy-keeper, choose me!
Do you like energetic dogs with a great grin? Take me home! I'm Liza, and I'm a young dog looking for my new family. I'm playful, very clever, like snacks, and check out my wiggly whole-body wag! I'm learning some basic manners while I'm here at the shelter, and I'd love to find someone who likes training dogs as much as I like learning. I do everything with enthusiasm, but I tend to forget to look before I leap (sometimes literarily!) so I'd do best in a home with teenagers or just adults. Once I've had a good walk or chased some toys in the yard, I love sprawling in a lap, cuddling and giving sloppy kisses. I've tried living with cats and other dogs before, but that's not my cup of tea. I want my humans all to myself, and I promise that we'll have so much fun you won't need any other pets! Do I sound like a good match for your household? Come in and let's get to know each other!

